When everything around you is shifting, the Buddha’s final teaching points you back to something unshakable. On his deathbed, the Buddha encouraged all practitioners to follow this injunction: “Be an island unto yourself.”

In a time of uncertainty and change, this teaching invites you to discover an inner ground that is not dependent on external conditions. It is not a call to isolation, but to clarity—to rooting your practice in direct experience, awareness, and wisdom, even as the world around you shifts.

In cultivating this kind of inner refuge, three qualities naturally begin to develop:

1. First, non-attachment—the ability to meet experience without clinging or aversion.
2. Second, self-regulation—a steadiness of mind that allows you to respond rather than react.
3. And third, creative problem solving—the freedom to meet life with flexibility and insight.

I hope you’ll take some time to watch the recording and apply the Buddha’s injunction to your practice.

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How can you keep your heart open in the midst of a moral dilemma? In times of conflict, we are often confronted with moral dilemmas that cannot be easily resolved—questions of action and restraint, justice and compassion.

Meditation practice does not ask us to escape these tensions, but to hold them open. To remain present with the complexity. To resist the urge for premature certainty. In this way, practice becomes less about finding answers and more about developing the capacity to stay awake amid what is unresolved.

I explored these questions in a recent community meditation on “War Is A Koan”, and I’m sharing an excerpt below. As Rainer Maria Rilke reminds us: “Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves.” 

You can watch the full video here (14 min.):

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In Zen Buddhism, the practice of “Koan Study” is meant to give the practitioner a transpersonal experience by exhausting the mind with an unanswerable riddle. But what happens when you insert koan practice into our experience of conflict?

In this short video of “The Aikido Koan”, I lead you through a simple (but not necessarily easy) spiritual practice for working with conflict from the “way of the spiritual warrior”.

There are 3 three typical “egoic” trigger reactions in conflict: aggressiveness, passiveness, or passive-aggressiveness. All three perpetuate conflict rather than resolve it.

The “Aikido Koan” is a self-inquiry practice done while staying present with the stress of conflict, which initiates a process of healing. Engaging with conflict in this mindful, ego-free way opens a path to transformation.

Leave your thoughts, comments, and questions below!

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The Inner Path of meditation is thoroughly known. Its development is predictable, which means that it is teachable. And since it’s teachable, it’s learnable.

“Progress Of Insight – The Inner Path Of Meditation”
Workshop, March 23rd, 2025

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Join meditation teacher Miles Kessler for this online workshop, March 23rd, 2025.

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The 3 Stages of Japanese sword crafting are the same 3 stages of traditional Budo training, of any form of personal development. Namely; 1) shape, 2) sharpen, 3) polish.

1. Shape: In shaping raw iron forged by extreme fire and hammered into a rough shape of a sword.

   In this practice stage, your mind and body is forged into the forms of the art you are learning. The status quo of your mind rebels against being shaped (against change). But with discipline, patience, persistence, and a lot of trust, you will gradually conform to the forms of the art. At this stage, you are only an unrefined copy of the forms, but this is a necessary step that prepares you and sets you on the path toward the higher stages of the art.

2. Sharpen: In this practice stage, the rough shape of the sword is smoothed out, creating a clear and effective form that functions according to its design. The edge is sharp, and it is able to cut the desired objects.

   In sharpening, you learn to clarify the forms for optimal efficiency and effectiveness. All your rough edges get sharpened up, and all your unnecessary exertions get removed. This is the stage of technical mastery, of creating optimal effectiveness in the free application of the forms. This is the beginning of the embodiment of the art.

3. Polish: In this stage, refinement of the sword is brought to the point where its true essence is brought out to shine.

   This is the practice stage where your forms become internalized, and their outward expression is spontaneous and appropriate. You become a living expression of the art in ever-refined ways. The art is now a natural expression of who you are, responding in perfect conformity with reality.

From gross, to subtle, to highly refined. A masterfully crafted sword and may take months to create.  Creating mastery in an art may take decades.

This is the WAY.

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When transitioning from one year to the next, it’s good to assess what aspects of your life would you like to leave behind, what would you like to carry forward, and what would you like to awaken in the new year. Most importantly, where are you at this very moment, and how does this facilitate the transition?

On Dec. 20th, I facilitated an end-of-year community meditation with our community. In this session, I spoke about how transitions apply to the Tibetan Buddhist teaching of rebirth consciousness. In this teaching, it is said that what we carry forward into our next rebirth is the totality of our karma and the totality of our wisdom.

Based on this talk, we did a reflection practice on where we’ve been, a mindfulness exercise to ground in the present, and a guided meditation to set intentions for the coming year. You are invited to join this practice by watching the replay below.

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Meditation In A Time Of Crisis – As the world spirals into yet another all too frequent crisis, we are once again confronted with the truth of our basic human fragility. At times like these, when confronted with our human vulnerability it is not uncommon to be overcome by insecurity, anxiety, and fear. Now more than ever, it’s important to rely on your Dharma practice as a refuge. Not as a practice of liberation that gives you refuge FROM the world, but rather as one that gives you refuge IN the world.

Starting tomorrow, you are invited to join me with my friends over at SanghaLive for a week of daily meditation sessions on Meditation In A Time Of Crisis. Join Miles at SanghaLive to practice cultivating your greatest spiritual resource.

Dates: Monday, Oct. 30 – Friday, Nov. 3rd
Times: 7 am London | 8 am Berlin | 6 pm Sydney
*For those in North America, all sessions will be available on replay.

GO HERE TO REGISTER FOR THIS FREE EVENT!

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Panel discussion with Diane Musho Hamilton, Vince Fakhoury Horn, Miles Kessler, Theo Horesh, & Tomer Duwik.

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