Meditation and the Dark Night of the Soul

The "Dukkha ñanas"

As mindfulness meditation deepens, insight does not unfold in a straight, ascending line. For many practitioners, the path includes periods of fear, grief, disorientation, or loss of meaning—experiences traditionally referred to as the Dark Night of the Soul. The experience of the “Dark Night” can feel like everything is falling apart. But in Vipassanā meditation, these experiences are not signs of failure, but natural stages of insight known as the dukkha ñāṇas. In other words, these experiences are the very arising of wisdom.

What Is Integral Budo?

Are You Practicing In Flatland?

Are You Practicing In Flatland? In a recent dialogue with Zen teacher and Kung Fu Sifu Keith Martin-Smith and Integral consultant and karateka Charles Crutchfield, we explored a question that cuts to the heart of both spiritual AND martial arts practice: Are we training in a way that includes the full depth of our humanity—or are we inadvertently practicing in flatland? Flatland is the collapse of complexity: reducing practice to technique without presence, spirituality without embodiment, or meditation without shadow work. Our conversation opened up the multidimensional nature of Integral Budo as a path beyond that flattening.

Aikido, Process Work, & Deeper Currents of Conflict

RAW Podcast w/ Gary Reiss & Miles Kessler

What does it mean to meet conflict—not with reactivity or avoidance—but with presence, clarity, and a willingness to go deeper? In a recent episode of the RAW podcast, my colleague Dr. Gary Reiss and I sat down with host Anouk Louri to explore these questions and share our experiences in trauma healing, martial arts, and group facilitation.

Gary shared his insights from his work in Israel and the Palestinian territories, including collaborations with trauma experts on both sides. Drawing from Process-Oriented Psychology, he explores how we can access the wisdom hidden within personal and collective tension—even, and especially, in heartbreaking times.

I shared the perspective of Aikido, a martial art rooted in harmony and non-resistance, and how its philosophy can help us engage conflict with grounded strength rather than force. Recorded during Gary’s recent visit to Tel Aviv, where we co-facilitated “healing the healers” events, this conversation invites you to reflect on what it means to respond—not react—amid profoundly uncertain times.

Tozan’s 5 Stages Of The Spiritual Path

“When you seek the grace of God, you can rest assured that the grace of God is also seeking you.” This beautiful and profound quote from Ramana Maharshi tells us that even though the spiritual path is challenging, we can rest assured because we are being supported through every step of the journey. It is a journey of your spiritual path that unfolds in increasingly deeper stages of depth, awakening, and support. Welcome to “The 5 Stages Of The Spiritual Path” as laid out 1,200 years ago in the ancient Zen Buddhist teaching of “The 5 Ranks Of Tozan”. It is both a spiritual map and timeless wisdom! Check out my recent Community Call replay below!


 

The Aikido Koan

A Zen Riddle For Conflict Resolution

In Zen Buddhism, the practice of “Koan Study” is meant to give the practitioner a transpersonal experience by exhausting the mind with an unanswerable riddle. But what happens when you insert koan practice into our experience of conflict?

Healing The Polarization In The Self & The World

Process Work & Aikido - w/ Dr. Gary Reiss

What does it mean to heal our wounds? What does it mean to resolve conflict with others? How are these questions related, and if that was a process, what would it look and feel like? These are the questions I recently explored with therapist and fellow Aikido practitioner Dr. Gary Reiss.


The Progress Of Insight: The Inner Map Of Meditation | An Online Workshop w/ Miles Kessler
Sunday, March 23rd, 2025

Join meditation teacher Miles Kessler for this online workshop, Feb. 25th, 2024.

Date: March 23, 2025
Time: 06:00 - 09:00 pm
Event: Workshop: The Progress Of Insight: The Inner Map Of Meditation
Topic: Workshop: The Progress Of Insight: The Inner Map Of Meditation
Venue: ONLINE VIA ZOOM
Public: Public